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Who is Shailene Woodley Dating?

Her own personal space. Shailene Woodley has kept her personal life out of the spotlight over the years, but her relationship with ex-boyfriend Aaron Rodgers drew a lot of attention.

In January 2018, the actress broke her usual silence about her personal life when she confirmed her relationship with Ben Volavola. She did so by posting a photo of the two kissing on Instagram. She and the rugby player were first linked in 2017. She did, however, reveal that they had broken up in April 2020.

Following his breakup from Danica Patrick, Us Weekly reported in February 2021 that Woodley was dating Rodgers. A source told Us at the time, “Aaron and Shailene are dating!”  “They started out as friends, but things have since evolved into something more romantic. While they are separated from one another, the two keep in touch. For the time being, their relationship is long-distance, but they’re making it work.” Days later, the Green Bay Packers quarterback shocked fans by announcing that he “got engaged” in 2020, with a shout-out to his “fiancée.” But he didn’t say her name.  (The couple called it quits in February 2022, according to Us.)

Woodley’s apprehension about disclosing details about her personal relationships hasn’t stopped her from speaking out about her dating preferences. In March 2014, she told The Hollywood Reporter, “I fall in love with human beings based on who they are, not what they do or what sex they are.”

In March 2015, the Big Little Lies alum elaborated on the subject, telling Elle that her approach is “all-loving” and “heart-centred.” “For me, when you’re truly in love, you’re my lighthouse!” she exclaimed. “You’re someone who lifts me up, keeps me safe, and has my f–kin’ back….” You also love me whole, wild and free. You let me be myself, and I’m going to let you be yourself! And I’ll be the place where you come home.”

In April 2020, Woodley revealed what she had recently learned about relationships.  She told Parade.com, “I clearly see that it’s important to sometimes slow down enough to understand the inner workings of your own heart and brain before you go looking for someone else to fill those gaps.” “I’m not looking for someone to fill a void in my life.” I’d like them to enter my life to complement what I’ve already accomplished.”

Shailene Woodley Dating History

Nahko Bear

From 2014 to 2016, Woodley had a relationship with the musician. The duo is still in touch. “A film that has been developed.” In February 2020, she captioned an Instagram photo of Bear with the caption, “circa ’16 or ’17. @nahkobear.” “(PS this guy’s new single just dropped is [fire]).” During the coronavirus pandemic in April 2020, she also joined him for a socially distanced Instagram Live.

Theo James

In April 2016, the alum of The Secret Life of the American Teenager was linked to her Divergent co-star. However, the romance rumours were never confirmed. At the time, he had also been dating Ruth Kearney, who is now his wife, since 2009.  “The hardest part of playing the relationship is making sure it doesn’t feel artificial,” James said of his onscreen romance with Woodley to The Fresno Bee in March 2016. “Hopefully, we accomplished that with this film.”

Ben Volavola

In 2017, the actress sparked dating rumours with the athlete, and in January 2018, they confirmed their relationship via Instagram. In May of that year, the pair made their red carpet debut. She announced their breakup in April 2020, telling Bustle that they “were very much on the road to marriage and children.” However, she was not ready for the next step. “I realised that I was still too young to fully commit.” I couldn’t be as available to him as I would have liked. “I didn’t love myself completely.”

Aaron Rodgers

In July of 2020, Rodgers and Woodley were linked for the first time. They began dating in February 2021, according to Us, with a source stating that they “started off as friends.”  The pair were “long-distance” at the time, according to the insider. Later that month, during his acceptance speech at the NFL Honours awards, the NFL star thanked his “fiancée.” “I got engaged,” he revealed as he reflected on 2020. The couple split after more than a year of dating in February 2022, according to Us.  “Shailene has been extremely busy with work,” a source told Us at the time, adding that Rodgers is “always focused” on football. “During the lockdown, everything was so different, and they were living in their own little bubble.” Aaron, according to Shailene’s friends, is not the best match for her.”